What's in the template
- Parties section (who, role names if any)
- Scope (bedroom-only / scene-only / lifestyle / 24/7)
- Hard limits and soft limits
- Safewords and check-in cadence
- Aftercare expectations
- Health considerations
- Privacy and discretion
- Review interval and termination clause
- Signature lines
How to use it
Read it through together, out loud if you can. The conversation matters more than the document. Cross out what doesn't apply. Write in what does. Initial each section you've discussed. Set a date to review it (most couples land on three months for a first contract, then six months, then yearly).
Further reading
This template is a symbolic communicative document for adults. It carries no legal weight. Consent is always withdrawable regardless of what either of you wrote down.