What we publish
- Reference material adults can use to understand BDSM practice.
- Practical guides on consent, communication, safety, and protocol.
- Mapped descriptions of activities, with safety considerations.
- Definitions of community terms with their actual community meanings.
What we won't write
- Lifestyle aspiration content. We're not selling anyone an identity.
- Stories framed as instruction. Fiction belongs elsewhere.
- Content that romanticizes activities most practitioners consider unsafe.
- Anything implying BDSM dynamics involving real-world inequality, abuse, or non-consent.
How we handle uncertainty
When a claim is contested in the community or in the literature, we say so. We don't pretend there's consensus where there isn't, and we don't manufacture controversy where there isn't either.
Corrections
If we publish something wrong, we fix it and mark the page's "updated" date. Significant corrections get a brief note explaining what changed. Send corrections via the contact page.
Audience
Every page assumes adult readers in jurisdictions where their reading is legal. We don't write for minors and the site is gated for adult-only access.
Reviewer process
Activity and safety pages are reviewed before publication against a checklist drawn from long-standing community harm-reduction literature: consent specifics, body-mechanics risks, edge cases, when to stop. We list our sources on each post.